Table of Contents

 

 

 

 

Introduction

xix

PART I

INTO THE MOUTHS OF BABES

1

 

Introduction

3

Chapter 1

Breastfeeding

5

 

A Comment on “Breast is Best”

6

 

How Far We’ve Come and How We Got Here

7

 

Getting Started

8

 

Breastfeeding Irritations

18

 

Going with the Flow

21

 

Into the Mouths of Moms

34

Chapter 2

Formula for Success

39

 

Sifting through the Formula Facts

39

 

Formula Intolerance

41

 

The Importance of Being Iron-Fortified

42

 

Formula Form and Function: Powders, Concentrates, and Ready-to-Feed

43

 

Formula Buying Tips

46

 

Mixing it Up

46

Chapter 3

Bottles and Nipples

49

 

The Model Bottle

49

Chapter 4

Going with the Flow

51

 

Heating Things Up

51

 

Finally—The Feeding Part

53

 

Bottle-Feeding by Numbers

53

 

Cleaning Up

54

 

Schedules and Routines

55

 

Schedules Gone Awry

55

 

Routine Considerations

57

 

Sucking Sense and Sensibility

57

PART II

WHAT GOES IN MUST COME OUT

61

 

Introduction

63

 

Looking into What Comes Out

63

 

Peeing and Pooping

63

Chapter 5

To Pee or Not to Pee

65

 

How Wet is Wet Enough?

65

Chapter 6

Poop Happens

67

 

The Scoop on Poop

67

 

The Many Colors of Poop

67

 

The Eating-Pooping Connection

69

 

Consistency: A Word About Diarrhea and Constipation

69

 

Pooping by Numbers

70

 

When the Pooping Gets Tough

71

 

Persistent Problematic Pooping (Hirschsprung Disease)

72

Chapter 7

Other Unmentionables and Inconveniences

73

 

Full of Hot Air

73

 

Burping

74

 

Pumping Gas

75

 

Hiccups

76

Chapter 8

Spitting Up and Vomiting

77

 

Spitting Up

78

 

Gagging and Sputtering

83

PART III

ACTIVITIES OF DAILY LIVING

85

 

Introduction

87

Chapter 9

Sleeping Like a Baby

89

 

What a Difference a Day (or Two) can Make

89

 

Back to Sleep

90

 

Good Night, Sleep Tight

93

 

Sleeping by the Book

96

Chapter 10

Crying

109

 

A Welcome Cry

109

 

Why Cry?

109

 

Tales of a Telltale Cry

110

 

Is it Colic?

111

 

Soothing the Savage Beast

112

 

When You Feel Like Crying

114

Chapter 11

The Art and Science of Diapering

117

 

The Facts About Diapers

117

 

The Debate: Cloth versus Disposable

117

 

The Art of Diapering

120

 

Buying Diapers

122

 

Changing Diapers

125

 

Disposing of Diapers

130

 

The Medical Side

130

Chapter 12

Baby Bath Basics

133

 

To Bathe or Not to Bathe

133

 

The Bathing Part

134

Chapter 13

Clothing and Accessories

143

 

The Big Picture

143

 

Learning the Layette of the Land

143

 

Size Matters

146

 

Profiles in Color

147

 

Principles of Practicality

147

Chapter 14

Taking Care of Yourself

157

 

Tending to Your Own Activities of Daily Living

157

 

Supplying Yourself with the Strength to Carry on

158

 

In Search of Sleep

159

 

Find New Friends

159

PART IV

ACTIVITIES OF DAILY LEARNING

161

 

Introduction

163

Chapter 15

Baby Brain Basics

165

 

The Baby Brain Before Birth

166

 

The Secret to a Smarter Baby

166

 

The Best Learning Activities for Babies

167

 

Overexposed

168

Chapter 16

Do You Understand me Now?

169

 

Look Who’s Talking!

169

 

Can You Hear me Now?

171

Chapter 17

These Hands Were Made for Talking

173

 

Signs of the Times

174

 

The ABCs of American Sign Language

175

Chapter 18

Fun and Games

177

 

Safety First

177

 

Black and White and Red All Over

178

 

What to Look for in a Toy

178

 

Books as Toys

179

 

Don’t Just Think Inside the Box

179

Chapter 19

Books and Babies

181

 

Reasons to Read

181

 

Showered by Books

183

 

The Developmental Milestones of Early Literacy

183

 

Reaching Out to Read

184

 

The Best Books for Babies

185

Chapter 20

The Sounds of Music

187

 

A Closer Look at the Mozart Effect

187

 

The Case for Classical Music

188

 

Music for Your Baby’s Ears

188

Chapter 21

Media Matters

189

 

Getting Poor Reception

189

 

The Baby Einstein Controversy

190

 

TV Guide for Kids

191

 

It All Ads Up

191

PART V

THINKING OUTSIDE OF THE HOUSE

193

 

Introduction

195

 

Looking for a Way Out

195

 

Dressing for the Occasion

195

 

All Dressed Up But Now Where to Go?

196

 

Don’t Leave Home without them

198

 

Taking Your Own Sweet Time

201

 

Leaving Home Alone

201

Chapter 22

Car Safety

203

 

Buckling Up so You can Enjoy the Ride

203

 

Before Leaving the Hospital

204

 

Selecting the Perfect Seat

204

 

An Overview of Your Rear-Facing Options

205

 

4 Rs of Installation

210

 

Making Your Efforts Last

214

 

Securing Your Infant

217

 

A Word on Accessorizing

218

 

Location, Location, Location

220

 

The Impact of Side-Impact Crash Protection

220

 

A Little About Lots

221

Chapter 23

Flying the Family-Friendly Skies

227

 

Timing Your Ticketed Travels

227

 

Booking Your Flights

230

 

Navigating the Airport

234

 

All Aboard

237

 

In-Flight Feeding

241

 

In-Flight Troubleshooting

243

Chapter 24

Choosing Child Care—Insider Tips for All Those Who Care

247

 

Finding Child Care That’s Right for You

247

 

The Early Bird Gets the Crib

248

 

Who Cares?

248

 

Trust More than Your Gut

251

 

Qualifications and Considerations

252

 

Child Care by Numbers

253

 

Health and Safety Considerations

255

PART VI

JUST FOR THE HEALTH OF IT

259

 

Introduction

261

Chapter 25

Finding the Right Baby Doctor—A View from the Inside Out

263

 

Your Quest for the Best

263

 

Let the Search Begin

264

Chapter 26

Head to Toe and in Between

273

 

From the Beginning—How Far Things Have Come

273

 

Parts is Parts

274

 

The Eyes have it

279

 

Were All Ears

282

 

Your Baby’s Nose Knows

284

 

Mouth to Mouth

286

 

Chest

288

 

Breasts

289

 

The Care and Keeping of the Cord

290

 

Back to Basics

292

 

Genitals

293

 

On the Surface—Your Newborn’s Skin

297

 

Fingers and Toes

300

 

Reflexes

301

Chapter 27

Fever: Trial by Fire

303

 

Fending Off Fever

303

 

Fever in Newborns

304

 

Overcoming the Fever Fear Factor

305

 

Treating a Fever

311

Chapter 28

Seeing Yellow: Jaundice

313

 

Behind the Scenes

313

 

Who Gets Jaundice?

313

 

Taking it from the Top

315

 

Time Course

315

 

Spot-Checking for Jaundice

316

 

Measuring Bilirubin Levels

317

 

Taking Care of Business—Treating Jaundice

318

Chapter 29

Getting to the Points: Vaccines, Your Baby, and You

321

 

What Exactly are Vaccines?

321

 

Getting Right to the Point

323

 

Taking the Edge Off

325

 

The Childhood Immunization Schedule

327

 

Reliable Resources

328

 

Out of Sight, But Never Out of Mind

330

PART VII

THANKS FOR THE MEMORIES

333

 

Introduction

333

 

Time Flies—So Catch It!

335

 

Reality Check

335

Chapter 30

Birth Memories

337

 

Keys to Photographic Success in the Delivery Room

337

 

Video

340

Chapter 31

Commemorative Creations

341

 

Saving Time in a Bottle

341

 

On the Day You Were Born

342

 

Putting the Day on Display

343

Chapter 32

Capturing the Moments Along the Way

345

 

A Word About Baby Books

345

 

Big Before You Know it

346

 

Journaling

347

 

Photo Clubs

347

Chapter 33

Sharing the Memories

349

 

(Almost) Instant Access

349

PART VIII

PARTING INSIGHTS

351

 

Index

355